“Just Relax” Argh!!!

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I am so sick of people telling me to just relax. Every one has got a story about some one else who just relaxed and forgot about trying to get pregnant – and eureka! That’s when it happened for them. God, 4 plus years of trying to get pregnant – I think I might have relaxed once or twice in that time period, don’t you!

Even my aunt, whose doctor, ten million years ago told her to take separate vacations from her husband and apparently, that did the trick. She got pregnant as soon as they reunited…I have often wondered if that child is his…she does not look like him at all. But anyway, I guess I am just being mean.

How can I relax? I have difficulty relaxing under the best of circumstances. I have embarked on major lifestyle changes to help me be calmer, worry less and relax more. I am a control freak. I like to get things done and do everything in my power to ensure a positive outcome. You want me to relax after trying to have a baby for 4 years with no luck???? It just becomes all the more critical that I do what needs to be done now so as to ensure that I don’t miss my small remaining window of opportunity. “Relax and it will happen.” Heck, I have been trying to relax for years now…I would if I could. Stop telling me to relax – give me some weed if you want but don’t tell me to relax Hmm, maybe I should try that one…time to move to the Netherlands – legal blunt..

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